Whose strength do we rely on?
No, I don’t mean that Lynda Carter is out to get you. I am speaking more of an expectation we women put on ourselves. We think we have to be Wonder Woman. I have been there. And it is exhausting. Not to mention that after having five kids, the costume is kind of uncomfortable.
How do we measure if we are a good mom for our kids? Simple, we ask God to examine our hearts and show us where we need to improve as mothers.
Simple…but I confess it isn’t/wasn’t usually the first thing I do. What’s the first thing we usually do? We compare ourselves to other women.
- She always has it so together.
- Her house is always spotless.
- Her kids are so smart.
a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstances
Ew. That is not what I want for my life. I hope it isn’t what you want for yours. If we examine our lives, we will find a lot of the “stress” in our lives are of our own making. For example, in that movie, many of the things that were stressing her out were only there because she wasn’t discipling her kids. Granted, the behavior shown was over-the-top for comedic effect, but I know I have created stress by not being a consistent parent with my kids. Surely God doesn’t want our lives to be consumed by stress.
Here is what God says He wants for us:
“Peace I leave with you, My peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.”
John 14:27
Much better, right?
Of course, we do have demanding circumstances in our lives. We are in a sin-cursed world. God does allow us to experience hard times. Contrary to a popular saying that God doesn’t give us more than we can handle, He actually does. Because He wants you to come to Him and let Him handle it for you. For Him to be glorified from the experience.
“Casting all your care upon Him; for He careth for you.”
1 Peter 5:7
If I have this goal to be a Wonder Woman wife and mom, where does God fit in? When does He get the credit He deserves for giving me the ability to be the wife/mom that I am? Or for the fact that He carried me through the challenges I have faced?
My life should be pointing people to Him. Trying to be Wonder Woman only points back at me.